Wife Cheating with a guy on PSHome

[distressed72]

So, I found out my wife has been having a online affair on pshome and was wondering how to find out whats going on?

Are they skyping or sexting or what?

Is there any way I can find out who the guy is by looking at her friends list or something?

I dont have a ps3 and heard home is shutting down, so how is she communicating with him??

 

[Titan]

Yeesh. I'm sorry to hear that dude. Of all things to use to have an affair through, this is a new one for me. Mostly because I didn't realize anybody used PS Home. You are right though, it is shutting down if it's not down already (I thought last day was March 31 or April 30). If he lives nearby, they could be texting, meeting. They could be exchanging messages through the PlayStation Network. The only way to find out his handle is going onto her PS3 (which I don't recommend. If she finds out, you'll have a whole new fight. And there's no way to log onto a PSN account without it broadcasting your online status. So if they keep tabs on each other and he's online, he'll know). Unfortunately though, in today's day and age, there are an infinite number of ways to communicate with someone, especially with the proliferation of mobile technology. So tracking it down would be difficult. Though with the way online gaming works, he may not even be from your geographic location or even your country and she could be trying to live out a sick fantasy through PS Home and they've never met, nor intend to.

Have you tried confronting her about it? How did you find out about it?

I wish you luck dude.

 

[distressed72]

Hi Titan, I kept asking her if shes been talking to someone online and she finally came up with this story, a rich guy in finland, with a damaged throat who cant yet or ever speak since shes contacted him talk on the phone (no voice)

 

[LilMissRage]

I think you in trouble if this story is even true, weirdly why have you given out her details on online forum? Is this a joke? Odd, secondly I like to add that if she's seeking any sort of fulfilment outside of the relationship (however backwards or weird this may be other rich guy who doesn't speak), then it indicates something is lacking in the marriage and she's not happy.

I would elect to speak to her and ask her if she's happy and what made her go in this direction?

 

[Kosh]

Not to make light of the situation.. but isn't PS Home going the way of the dinosaurs shortly?

That said... You should have a sit down with her and discuss it. Last thing you need is for this person to start asking for money from her. These things can spiral out of control.


Good luck to you. But in the end how you approach this is upto you.